I'm just about to turn seventeen this year. Yes,still young. But I can say that I've already been through a lot. I've already learned and realized so much about life. Ive laughed along those happy moments of it and also cried through those heartrending circumstances. I've been through ups and downs. I've already knew lot of being praised and being judged and criticized. I was able to value the presence of such things and also understand the absence of some. I have experienced "having" as well as "losing"; and knew so much about the art of love.
Life is never easy, it's full of trials, sacrifices and heartaches I must say. No matter how hard you try, sometimes it's still not just enough. Even if you do sacrifice, it's yet not reasonable for you to get what you want. Although you act as if every thing's perfectly fine, in any case, it won't change anything. You learn to pretend that you can face anything even if you know you really can't. You make believe that you're still strong even though you're really weak. Some people simply come in to your life and walk away just like that leaving you lonely and helpless. You can't accept the fact that you're alone and the world seems to crash it all on you. It's unfair but we can't do anything about it. It's meant to happen and it's the way it should be. We can't change it. That's life. It's tough. It's exigent. It's testing. It's just seems that we can deal with all of its reality.
Love and friendships are th colors of life. They're the strongest bonds that we can ever go through. We treasure it a lot and mean so much to us. It's influential, it's weighty and its the reason why we're all inspired and are able to deal with lots of things in life.
Our friends are our best buds. We can do anything and almost everything with them. They're the ones that we spend plenty of time of. It's just that, when we're with them, there's no limit. There's not just enough. We all want to enjoy and we should admit, sometimes, the wrong can be right as long as we know that we've got them along. Yeah, it's really cool..Our love for them is really unconditional. I'm really amazed on how they've got this power that makes us not to resist them. We do our best to be there when they needed us. We never turned them down. Actually, we can let ourself down for them. We preferred to be in malls hanging out with them, rather than to be with our family at home. There are just lots and lots of difference. Isn't funny? How friendship can transform us to persons that we usually didn't think we could be, the persons that our parents didn't want us to be. I'm not saying that our friends are bad influences. They're actually good influences to us. They teach us how to be brave, how to make hard things easy without being pressured. But I should say that SOME ARE NOT. They're not being helpful. Some friendships just can't be considered as one. I get mystified when I see "best friends forever friends" turning to "worst enemies". It's odd, such a shame because we can't get anything from these fights. There are no winners here, all are losers. I just find these issues very worthless. Just think of this; How can you say or do cruel things to a person that you used to spend lots of time with, the person that you used to call your "best", the person that you had crazy moments with, someone that has made so much for you as well as you do. All because of the influence of new friends, you've turned to someone you're not used to be. FIRST CONCLUSION: PEOPLE CHANGE.
Being in love is a magical feeling. What more is being loved? It sure feels good. You always have a reason to smile, to blush and feel fine despite all the hardships and problems in life because you've got someone- Someone you cares for you, someone who constantly thinks of you, someone who's deeply in lone with you. But then suddenly, many things bother you. Lots of people oppose and you don't know what to do. You'll say that how could it be so wrong when it feels so right? Thinking that this person is the one, you persist and stick with this person you love. Against all odds! What an incredible thing to do for that person you love. Following no rules and fighting for your right to love. Love sure defies anything, isn't it? Then here come the heartaches. The one you fought for surprisingly changed. This person is not the one you knew. You come to think that after all, what others have told you was right. You've been so in love and you forgot to consider lots of things. You feel so much regret;you wished that if only you've just waited a bit more. You've got so many questions in mind but you'll be just about to say and finally realized that all of these should be over. You should now move on, and forget the one you loved. After sometime, you'll surely realize that this person is really not the one. You were strong, SECOND CONCLUSION: LOVE DOESN'T LAST.
We're all going through many things right now. Dealing with other dilemmas and facing lots of trials. My conclusions are just product of my observations and experiences. These statements could change. It could mean that people do change but it's for the better. It's meant maybe because God has other plans for us. We could say a better plan and even if it caused some friendships to end, we should emphasize and believe that in every end, there's a new beginning. Love doesn't last- that's what I think for now but that can alter and maybe after sometime, I'll then say that love is forever. Its all depends on the one we love and it's up to our fate. Giving love is a wonderful thing to do. Being loved is overwhelming. Whatever is happening to us now are just according to our own destinies. What's meant is meant. What's done is already done. It's just for us to find out what happens next. We should be more than ready for the things that we're about to face in the near future. But despite all the challenges and heartaches that we've got through, let's all accept it and just try to think that life is not always unfair and hard. We should all look up to my LAST CONCLUSION: LIFE GOES ON. :)
